On Friday, Senator Risa Hontiveros appealed to the government to exercise compassion and allow political detainee Reina Mae Casino to bid a decent farewell to her Baby River.
“The real indicator of who we are as a nation is if we can still offer even our worst critics compassion. Ibigay natin ang huling pagpapaalam sa mag-ina nang maayos,” Hontiveros, chair of the Senate committee on women, said in a statement.
Reina Mae, a 23-year-old activist, was arrested for alleged illegal possession of firearms and explosives. She was then separated from Baby River, who died of pneumonia on October 9.
On Wednesday, Reina Mae was allowed to attend baby River’s wake, handcuffed and heavily guarded, for just three hours.
Her quick visit to her deceased daughter was even ruined when tension escalated after the guards tried to pull her out earlier than the schedule.
“Hanggang sa burol niya, pinagkaitan ang kanyang ina. Pati ang mga huling sandali na makasama man lang ang labi niya, hindi pa maibigay,” Hontiveros said.
“Bakit pa kailangan ng 40 guwardiya para bantayan ang isang nagluluksang ina na nakaposas at ang kanyang baby na patay na?” she added.
Let Reina Mae bid decent farewell to Baby River – Hontiveros
Baby River would be buried today, and Reina Mae was only given another three hours to bid goodbye to her child.
“No matter our political differences, our decisions should always be made in kindness,” she added.
On Friday morning, Kapatid, an organization supporting detained activists, reported around 20 police officers were deployed at the funeral parlor and were allegedly preventing people from visiting the wake.
“They are barring people from entering, and they are depriving people of seeing Baby River one last time,” Kapatid said.
Kapatid asked the Bureau of Jail Management and Penology and the Philippine National Police to let Reina Mae “grieve in peace” without interference this time.
“We hope that what transpired last Wednesday will not happen today. You only bury your dead once. If Reina Mae wants to tightly embrace her child’s casket, let her do so. If she wants to hug her family to seek comfort, let her do so,” said Kapatid spokesperson Fides Lim.
“These are little things compared to what this government did to her,” she said.

Margret Fermin
Margret Fermin is a news writer based in the Philippines.